全家都很惦記和想念妳,特別是妳母親去世後,在衣食住行學習等方面,都很分心.本想通過電話與妳交流和囑托,家裏電話壹直無人接,只好寫信和妳交流和囑托,就關心的幾個事說壹說吧.
1:family affairs, only have you now with two father, one is you are occupied in study but can also go home, your father is occupied in a work, then can go home for two weeks once in the other parts of country besides, working again very busy, very tired, surgical operation come down two legs painful, the heel is painful, earning money is also not easy.You should make allowance for your father.All household choreses depend you complete, my missing your intelligent wisdom and ability can attain completely, should also take this, share sorrows a solution for your father difficult, make his mood relaxed, there is no standing alone feeling, this is also the biggest wish in your father, don't know whether you attains or not, if do like this, grandpa the grandmother and whole family trust, if is not so, should do a deep check, effort attains to express parents' loving care from childhood from now on.
1:家事,現在只有妳和父親兩人,壹是妳忙於學習但還可以回家,妳父親忙於工作,且又在外地,兩周才能回家壹次,工作又很忙,很累,手術下來兩腿疼,腳跟疼,掙錢也是不容易的.妳應該體諒妳爸爸.所有家務都靠妳來完成,我想妳的聰明才智完全是可以做到的,也應該把這個重擔挑起來,為妳父親分憂解難,使他心情舒暢,沒有孤獨感,這也是妳父親最大的心願,不知道妳是否做到了,如果是這樣做的,爺爺奶奶及全家就放心了， 如果不是這樣,應做深刻檢查,從現在起努力做到,以表達父母養育之恩.
2.You are a very intelligent and skillful kid, what matter 1:00 deeply, a learn meeting, the whole families all endorse very much, also feeling proud of very much.We go to an Australia for the first time, you go to a senior high school at the right moment, studying result very excellent, and get a prize for many times, we all feel very happy, second time go to Australia, you have already gone to point university, the whole family feels particularly happy, I with your daddy returned your school to turn 1 turn, all saying you fight to excel very much, contending for brilliance for the whole family,Go to an Australia to also observe you twice the place of some shortage also, one is play of too crazy, can say go to school outside of time's ising basic be not at home, time that is at home few, even in the evening go home also still don't live at home sometimes very late, two is don't do household chores to live, even does own house also doesn't tidy up, will not do 麽 ?BE not, have already depended on thought, the perhaps lazy word is a head, but presses for many times at your mama under, have of lived to also do, also do very good, that time not is have feeling original, your mama is still living, you the grandpa's grandmother is there, still can forgive of, now dissimilarity, only is completed by you, you return and give it a bit of thought, we go to two Australia, you have never taken a grandpa's grandmother to once play once, having never sat as well together good communicate once, discuss once, time which explains you play is too nervous, currently you have already grown up an adult, the family environment also changes, should along with time environment of variety and variety, according to the regulation handle affairs, result must be okay, otherwise get just the opposite, long, the your father female can also take place antinomy, you should apprehensibility.
2.妳是個很聰慧伶俐的孩子,什麽事壹點就透,壹學就會,全家都很贊許,也很感到自豪.我們第壹次去澳大利亞,妳正好上高中,學習成績很優秀,並多次獲獎,我們都感到很高興,第二次去澳大利亞,妳已經上重點大學,全家感到格外高興,我和妳爸還到妳學校轉了壹圈,都說妳很爭氣,為全家爭了光彩,
兩次去澳大利亞也觀察妳也有些不足之處,壹是玩的太瘋,可以說上學以外的時間基本不在家,在家的時間很少,甚至晚上回家也很晚,有時候還不在家住,二是不幹家務活,連自己的屋子也不收拾,是不會幹麽?不是，有依靠思想，或者懶字當頭,但在妳媽多次催促下，有的活也幹了,也幹得很好,那時不是有情可原的，妳媽健在,妳爺爺奶奶在那,還是可以原諒的,現在就不同了,只有靠妳去完成,妳回想壹下，我們去兩次澳大利亞,妳未曾帶爺爺奶奶玩過壹次(不是計較),也未曾坐在壹起很好的交流壹次,暢談壹次吧,說明妳玩的時間太緊張了,目前妳已經長大成人,家庭環境也變了,應該隨著時間環境的變化而變化，按照規律辦事了,效果壹定是好的,否則適得其反,久之,妳們父女也會發生矛盾,妳應能理解.
3.is you make friends extensive and too many, friend's having another is a good matter, but wants to handle fitting, if not fitting became a bad matter difficult matter, I felt you have enough to do to look after myself on this problem, who please go all, all time always not enough use, there is an ancient words in China:"friend not at many, the bosom friend only has 12".Live in a society, also have an important problem to notice, that is I can or so person, but is not been or so by the person.In other words, I want to do of matter, call you go to do for me, I don't want to do of matter, you call I go to I also don't go,Can't everything call the somebody else lead long a nose to walk, if can make this, time always mine, oneself wants to do what certainly can make.
Still say your study, you have already finished reading an educational background now, also reading the second educational background, till then already 28 years old, press to say should result of time, but you haven't headed for society, you should thought of to learn to use by placing, the knowledge is unequal to level, the educational background also is unequal to knowledge, only biding a value through time creation, then can be admitted by the society.Hope you to learn to have results to show a fruit.
Be saying one more point, learning has to there is high ambition to, be have to there is great target, learn to just there is interest, learn model, the strength of the model is endless, is in own heart to have a mark pole, there is one noodles mirror, shine in glory oneself every moment.I feel you the best model is you dear father.Your father's studying is very assiduous, also the right and wrong in common use heart of, can say that study constantly, the schoolbag takes along with, walking to where learn where, always feel study time isn't enough to use.After finishing university, work then can test graduate student above for two years, he works and takes examinations for Peking for a year, result pass examination, but can't receive, come back and continue and work, the second year again take examinations, result again pass examination, that time just chase your house where Peking, go abroad an Australia afterwards, learn and cure from the beginning, on closing another pass, close a pass and pass, arrive currently become an overseas and study abroad Doctor, chest surgery expert, foreigner all for your daddy pick thumb, have no assiduous study spirit where have today, your brains is also very intelligent, 100 divide 100 use on the study, own your father's assiduous spirit, the result would also obtain in the future.
3是妳交友既廣泛又太多,朋友多了是好事,但要處理恰當,如果不恰當就成了壞事難事,我覺得妳在這個問題上自顧不暇,誰請都去，所有的時間總是不夠用,中國有句古話:”朋友不在多,知心朋友只有壹兩個”.活在社會上,還有壹個重要問題要註意,那就是我只能左右人，而不被人左右.換句話說,我想幹的事,叫妳幫我去幹,我不想幹的事,妳叫我去我也不去,不能事事叫人家牽著鼻子走，如果能做到這壹點,時間總是我的,自己想做什麽就壹定能做成.
還是說妳的學習吧,現在妳已經讀完壹個學歷,還在讀第二個學歷,到那時就已經28歲了,按說應該出成果的時候了,但是妳還沒有走向社會,妳應想到學以置用,知識不等於水平,學歷也不等於知識,只有通過時間創造出價值,才能被社會承認.望妳學有成果.
在多說壹點,學要有大誌向,就是要有遠大目標,學起來才有興趣,學有榜樣,榜樣的力量是無窮的，就是在自己的心目中有標桿,有壹面鏡子,時刻照耀自己.我覺得妳最好榜樣就是妳親愛的爸爸.妳爸爸學習是非常刻苦的,也是非常用心的,可以說手不釋卷,書包隨身帶,走到哪學到哪,總覺得學習時間不夠用.大學畢業後,工作兩年以上才能考研究生,他工作壹年就北京參加考試,結果就考上了， 但是不能接收,回來繼續工作,第二年又去參加考試,結果又考上了,那時才把妳們家安在北京,後來出國到澳大利亞,學醫從頭來,壹關又壹關,關關通過,到目前成為壹名海外留學博士,胸外科專家,外國人都為妳爸挑大拇指,沒有刻苦的學習精神哪有今天,妳的頭腦也很聰明,百分百用在學習上,擁有妳爸爸的刻苦精神,未來成果也會取得的.
有些寫的好口語化哦，我真是邊翻邊改哦，郁悶