assertive-submissive的含義：堅決服從。
assertive
英[?s?:t?v]
美[?s?:rt?v]
adj. 觀點明確的; 堅決主張的;
[例句]You see? You're calm, assertive and in control.
看到了嗎?妳冷靜果斷，掌握了控制權.
submissive
英[s?b?m?s?v]
美[s?b?m?s?v]
adj. 柔順; 順從的，唯命是從的; 帖; 貼;
[例句]We need him to become relaxed and submissive.
我們需要他變的放松和順從.