In the face of the object doesn't like, to knock him by surprise, to reject the other. If the lack of opportunities, refer to the manufacturing opportunity, first to Fangxing, high spirits, and then take advantage of each other's lack of mental preparation, face still grinning, find an excuse to quit, to refuse to.
Said the first point and reject irrelevant if rejected, this for the first suppression Yang way, can give a person the heart a buffer and bedding, don't let to very direct, stiff.
In order to deal with the interpersonal relationship between us, we should learn to say no, learn to euphemism refused to others翻譯： 對於他人的話，人們總是會表現出情感反應。如果先說讓人高興的話，即使馬上接著說些使人生氣的話，對方也能以欣然的表情繼續聽。利用這種方法，可以拒絕不受喜歡的對象。
面對不喜歡的對象，要出其不意地敲他壹下，以便拒絕對方。若缺乏機會，不妨參照上例，制造機會，先使對方興高采烈，然後趁對方缺乏心理準備，臉上仍在笑嘻嘻時，找到借口及時退出，達到拒絕的目的。
拒絕之前先說點與拒絕無關的話，這種欲抑先揚的方式，可以給人心裏壹個緩沖和鋪墊，不至於讓拒絕進行得很直接、僵硬。
為了處理好我們的人際關系，我們應該學會說不，學會委婉拒絕他人