Life, every day you get along with others, contact with different people and different things. Some people brilliance, some people are squarely in communication. Appear this kind of circumstance, at this moment you should realize "oneself is a popular person". I think, the key is about the weakness of human: -
1, do you to others sincerely interested, if you really interested in others, two months you can light to others than a man for his interest in two years, which can make more friends.
2, whether you can remember people's names, remember people's names, but also can be the same name, in fact is a clever and effective praise.
3 and if you can be a good listener, a talk to you, for his own needs and problems of its own, to the needs and problems than you are interested in a hundredfold.
4 and if you let someone save face, in fact, you hurt anyone, perhaps have forgotten you hurt, but the people will never forget you, he never remember your strengths.
5 and if you often smile, smile was the most beautiful language. Language is used to communicate, and communication is various, as long as you keep smile, then meet you forever and smile.
Anyhow, in life with sincerity, standing on the other side of the things for other positions, slowly, you will become a very popular.
讓自己成為壹個受歡迎的人
生活中，大家每天都與別人相處，接觸不同的人、不同的事。有些人春風得意，有些人卻交際失言…出現這種情況，此時此刻妳就該意識到“自己是否是位受歡迎的人”。我覺得，關鍵就是——了解人性的弱點：
1、妳是否對別人真誠地感興趣，妳要是真的對別人感興趣，兩個月內妳就能比壹個光要別人對他感興趣的人兩年內所交的朋友還多。
2、妳是否能夠記住別人的名字，記住別人的名字，而且能夠很經易地叫出來，事實上就等於給別人壹個巧妙而有效的贊美。
3、妳是否能夠做壹個好的聽者，壹個跟妳談話的人，對他自己的需求，自己的問題，要比對妳的需求和問題感興趣於百倍。
4、妳是否讓別人保住面子，事實上，妳傷害過誰，也許早已忘了，可是被妳傷害的那個人永遠不會忘記妳，他也決不會記住妳的優點。
5、妳是否時常微笑，笑是最美的語言。語言是用來溝通的，而溝通是多方面的，只要妳永遠微笑，那麽迎接妳的永遠也是微笑。
總之，在生活中以誠待人，多站在對方的立場替對方想事情，慢慢地，妳也會成為壹位很受歡迎的人。